“Correct” Language

This topic is something that gets me rather fired up.  It’s the idea behind “correct” language.  People will often say things such as, “That’s not correct English,” “That isn’t a word,” “Did I say that right,” and they will judge people’s intelligence based on the way they talk.  If they use big, unusual words, “correct” grammar, and are able to substantiate (look at how smart I am) themselves with a dictionary are educated.  Those who use “fake” or “made up” words, “incorrect” grammar, and their usage doesn’t match that of a random dictionary are illiterate.

Here’s a little lesson for you in languages.  Languages are always in a constant state of change.  Modern English was at one time Shakespearean English or Early-Modern English, which came from Middle English, which came from Old English or Anglo-Saxon, which came from a combination of different languages including the languages of the Angles, the Saxons, and the Jutes, then, several languages earlier, it came from Proto-Germanic, which came from Proto-Indo-European, and from there on it is an argument which language PIE came from.

Therefore languages are currently changing and will continue to change until we figure out some way to freeze them in their current states.  Examples of changes are new words, new grammar structures, new pronunciations, etc.  New aspects of a language are not wrong they are just different.  I remember when I was little everyone got attacked for using the contraction ain’t.  “That isn’t a word!”  Ain’t is a perfectly legitimate contraction that comes from amn’t.  You understand it, and it works exactly the same as any other contraction so why is it not correct?

The argument that the older form is more correct is completely ignorant.  You always hear older people complaining about the way English is going down the drain now-a-days, words are becoming sloppy, and Americanisms are ruining English, but those are simply because languages change.  At one time the English of our grandparents’ generations was the new, sloppy form, and the same for the English of their grandparents’ generation.  Change is always viewed as bad, but that is just a negative perception by negative people who can’t see the good in change.  Change makes our language more lively, interesting, and fits the current age more correctly. That just shows if anything the newer the form of the language the more correct it is.

And how about you guess what will happen to these complainers.  The old farts who complain about the downfall of English will one day die off along with their form of the language.  Maybe someday some of the characteristics of their English will enter the current form but that neither makes it better nor worse.

If the case that the older form is the correct form then here are some examples of correct language that you probably wouldn’t expect.  The General American pronunciation is more correct than Received Pronunciation because the General American accent is closer to the accent of the settlers that came from England, Quebec French is more correct than the French spoken in France because it continues to use more words and grammar structures of Old French than Standard French does, and I am sure there are many other examples that would greatly surprise the average person.

I absolutely cannot stand when people try to back up their argument with a dictionary.  This may be a reality check for some of you, but a dictionary is not the bible of language.  It is simply a reference tool for some of the standard language and some non-standard forms at the time of its publication.  If a word isn’t in the dictionary then that doesn’t mean that word isn’t a word; it means that is a bad dictionary that is not up to date with the current language.

If you are now questioning what determines a definition or legitimacy of a word if a dictionary doesn’t it is usage.  How people use words in everyday speech determines their definition and correctness.  I remember one time at dinner when I was younger my brother tried to argue that people always use conservative incorrectly because it means frugal and not traditional or orthodox.  That is simply not true because people in everyday life used conservative as both and therefore both are correct. Also, if you look in a dictionary now there are definitions for both meanings.

Making up words and using new grammar structures is totally fine.  I can say “I am breakfasting” instead of “I am eating breakfast.”  The prior means exactly the same thing except it is easier and simpler so why not use it?  An example of making an adjective that I change into a noun is the word stupid.  A stupid is a stupid person.  Again means the same thing except simpler, easier, and funnier because it is not something you are use to hearing.

I admit to laughing when I hear new words or new structure, but there is nothing wrong with them.  Today my mom was watching Judge Judy, and it was a case of a lady who was dog sitting.  She was being sued because the dog got to her boyfriend’s medication and died.  The girl argued that it was her fault because it was an accident.  Judge Judy responded with several examples of accidents that people are still liable for like hitting someone else’s car.  She then went on to say,  “Those are all accidents, not on purposes,” or something along those lines.  My mom, dad, and I (not incorrect if I said me, my dad, and my mom) burst out laughing because it was different.  We had never heard that before so it was funny but not incorrect.  We absolutely understood what she said, and that is all language is meant for.  I hate this bullshit where people judge each other on how well they speak.  Language is meant for communication not a way to show someone’s education.

Shakespeare is a perfect example for new language who is considered one of the best writers in English history.  He invented, imported, and was the first to write down thousands of words and expressions that you would never dare argue aren’t correct.  Words like eyeball, obscene, watchdog, what the dickens, etc.

I am not arguing against a standard because I definitely agree that there should be a standard form of all languages.  This allows people of different dialects to talk to each other without discrepancy.

So instead of thinking of new usages as wrong, we should think of it as unique and a perfect way to originally express ourselves. So please stop fighting your “correct” language war against freedom of expression, and let language do what it naturally does!

Keep expressing yourself freely!

-Tyler

Here is a post and a video that everyone should read and watch:

English and “Correct” Words in French

Erin McKean redefines the dictionary

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2 Responses to “Correct” Language

  1. Hi!

    I agree with you in the issue, but I think it’s only the most militant “properists” who wouldn’t.

    I have never understood the use of fancy words. I can excuse it if it’s fancy words that are not fancy to you, but everyone should be opting to simpler, more normal language. To me the use of “paper language” (fancy words, complex syntax) is just as bad as using SMS lingo, slang or LOLcattish.

    I don’t care if you use “was” in subjunctive, or whether you even know what a subjunctive is; and everyone creates typos, but I do think people who are unable to express themselves without using mobile phone lingua or slang, is stupid. (Even more so if they use this kind of language to make an impression)

    It might be because English is my second language, and I would prefer to learn it “proper”, so that I would be able to choose if I want to speak like grandparents or grandchildren… I mean, I will adjust the language to the company in which I use the language anyway.

    “not ‘on purpose’-s” Yeah… one understands. To a certain extend… but you forget one specific point with languages… the purpose is to be understood, yes. But the purpose is also to provide for future understanding. You understand what a properist is , what kind of language is paper language and LOLcattish, but… I’m trying to explain to people that antisemitism doesn’t mean opposition to semitic people… and semites can easily be antisemitic, even Jewish semites. Hundred years ago when the word was coined everyone understood well what it means. Now we must invent another word, because antisemites refuse to acknowledge the existence of antisemitism, and use the misnomer as proof of that there is no such thing…
    A boy was disqualified from spelling bee, when he spelled opera O-P-R-A-H. He didn’t know what opera is, but Oprah his mother watched every day.

    Yes, language is a living thing, so it changes, evolves and grows. I’m reading le Comte de Monte-Cristo, and there are words and formulations that are not being used in today’s French. I don’t much care. I can read most of LOLcattish. But – today most English users are non-native… bringing in specialities from their own languages. They say that in the future the lingua franca will be English, but not the English we speak now, but the English the Asians have created, using a lot of Indian, Chinese and Japanese words, concepts and spelling.

    I cud say i use the langwich any way i like cos its my right and i cunt be botherd to rite it by some rules some idiot things are propr. After all, u get me, neh? Then, also, I could say that I could bother a little and at least TRY to write as well as I can by the commonly accepted rules, to make it easier for ALL to understand what I am trying to say. That I could try to remember that every now and then
    what I have right to do is not the right thing to do;
    that consideration and kindness are what made human beings the success we are today;
    that Khatzumoto (AJATT) is right:
    “Don’t go inventing your own Japanese; no one will understand you. You’ll be doing the Japanese equivalent of “all your base are belong to us”

    • Hello Ketutar!

      Thank you for reading my blog and sharing your opinion with me! I don’t think there is anyone on this planet who CAN’T express themselves without using text language or slang, but they choose to simply because that is the language they like to use. And there is nothing wrong with that. There are certainly different ways language is used that annoys me such as people pronouncing ‘especially’ as ‘expecially’ and using ‘tf’ and ‘af’ for ‘the fuck’ and ‘as fuck,’ but I try to get over those annoyances because I understand that those reactions are just the judgmental tendencies we all have. I don’t understand your paragraph about the word antisemitism. Are you saying that the meaning of the word antisemitism has changed and is now used incorrectly? I have also heard about how the future lingua franca will not be English but will be what has been called Globish, English that has been significantly influenced by the speaker’s native language. That is very interesting to me, and I can’t wait to see what happens to language in the future! Thank you for the comment!

      -Tyler

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